Beginner's Guide to Bondage Techniques

Despite what the stereotypical porn movies may have shown you, there are many more ways to indulge in a bit of bedroom bondage that aren’t strictly limited to being chained to the bedposts in a pair of novelty handcuffs and a dodgy blindfold. Now, we’re not saying to abandon that way of doing things, but there is a hell of a lot more to the world of bondage, and half of the fun is in the experimenting!

Spread limbs, tie up every inch, smack bums and tape up – all just the tip of the iceberg! Whatever you’re into, our beginners guide to bondage techniques is a sure fire way to fire up your bedroom antics and send your senses into overdrive!

Cuffs (and collars, if you’re feeling adventurous!)

Step away from the fluffy pink hen do cuffs – they’re probably not strong enough for proper bondage play!

Being restrained is a great way to heighten your other senses and feeling powerless is one of the sexiest things that a sub can do in the bedroom. For those who still want to maintain a little bit of control, cuffs are the best way to dip your toe.

Cuff your partner whilst they are lying down and stretch their arms right out so you don’t miss an inch. Add a collar with a chain if you really want to get naughty…

Tape Bonds

Don’t be scared to experiment with your materials, and tape bonding is a sexy way to tie your subject up in a number of knots. Get the ankles together, or fasten all limbs together – you’re the boss. Our tape can be used safely on all parts of the body and get your partner in a number of positions that will leave them at your mercy.

Spreading

Yes, we mean legs, but we also mean arms! By spreading your partner so that their arms and legs are both wide open, you are making them completely vulnerable to whatever you want to do to them. A spreader bar will open legs and keep them that way, and flinching or moving is very hard to do. Try it in different positions, such as bent over so that doggy style is easy, or use it lying down for the ultimate position that is all about submission.

Mummification

No – we don’t mean bandages and artefacts, we mean the technique of full body bondage – one of the biggest turn ons that can be achieved in the bedroom. Use tape or rope and tie your subject up from top to toe, leaving just the good bits bare. Mummification is where you will start to see bondage as an art form, and the beauty of doing this properly will be apparent. The tight wrapping will make the skin super sensitive to any form of touch.

Step it up a notch

OK, so you’ve got the whole bondage restraint thing down to a fine art and you want to get a little hotter? No problem – bring in the hardware.Sensory deprivation pumps up submission and will leave both parties chomping at the bit – with one actually doing it!

How about a ball gag? Put it in your partner’s mouth and stop them from speaking, before punishing them every single time they make a noise. A soft spank on the bum or a hard whip – it all depends how far both of you want to go.

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A blindfold will stop any hints of what’s going to happen next from being revealed – which in turn heightens senses and arousal.